“成功没有捷径，但需要一些好习惯。”的确，如果将人的各种命运分解、揉碎，试图从中找出一些规律的话，那么良好的习惯，敢于抓住际遇的勇气是比天赋更为重要的东西。

习惯1

Be proactive —— you're in charge

积极主动，我的人生我负责

习惯标准：对自己负责，做事积极主动；管理自己的行为、态度和情绪；做了错事不怪别人，而应反省自己；不用别人说我也会去做正确的事情，哪怕没有人在看。

I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.

习惯2

Begin with the end in mind - Have a plan

有目标，有计划

习惯标准：做事前先定计划和目标，努力去做有意义和能带来积极影响的事。

I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference.

习惯3

Put first things first - Work first, then play

做事分主次，先工作，后娱乐

习惯标准：不该做的事，勇于说不，在重要的事情上花时间；学会制定优先级，做日程表，并执行计划；对自己有纪律，做事井井有条。

I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.

习惯4

Think win-win - Everyone can win

从双赢角度考虑问题，利己利人

习惯标准：勇于争取自己想要的，但同时也会考虑别人的需求；有矛盾的时候，寻求能平衡彼此需求的解决方案。

I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others' Emotional Bank Accounts. Whenconflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.

习惯5

Seek first to understand, then to be understood

先去理解别人，再求被人理解

习惯标准：仔细聆听别人的主意和情感，努力从他人角度去理解问题；听别人说话的时候不插嘴、不打扰，并注视他的眼睛；能自信地说出自己的主意。

I listen to other people's ideas and feelings. I try to see things from their view points. I listen to others without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people in the eyes when talking.

习惯6

Synergize ——Together is better

协同——合作会更好

习惯标准：珍重别人的优点，向他们学习；即使别人和自己很不一样，也能与大家友好相处；能有效地进行团队合作，始终保持谦虚的精神。

I value other people's strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups.I seek out other people's ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone.I am humble.

习惯7

Sharpen the saw——Balance feels best

磨刀不误砍柴工，寻求健康和平衡

习惯标准：注意饮食、锻炼和睡眠；多花时间和家人、朋友在一起，而不是电脑手机。

I take care of my body eating right, exercising and getting sleep. Ispend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to help others.